How Wrong Was I???

Ive finally realize that Frank want to be in control of this friendship -
I don't play that way and basically told him to get lost. That his kind of people are not my kind of people. I don't associate with people who slut around on sites, hook ups and people like that and that's how Frank is. He insists that I go pick up my stuff, I told him to trash it, that I will claim it as a loss. He tried the guilt trip on me saying how one day my niece will look down on me basically for letting the bracelet go. I told him I will explain and she will understand how I met an idiot who took me for a ride. I still have the necklace and will cherish that. He wont leave me alone. I forwarded an email he sent me when we first met where HE tells me he wants to be with me, wake up with me, have me over for dinner - He wrote back, "Lovely" I told him it was his crap, his words I meant that were crap. I told him I was done with him and I chose not to be friends with him, that I retrieved all his photos and vids etc, that there I no need for me to listen to what he wants me to do, who is he to tell me? So screw it - He kept asking if I was done I assume in regards to my conversation and I just replied with, "yup"...it was over, I go off line and he went on to send one saying, his only wish is that I be happy - I wrote, whatever, then later on he said, "good night dickhead" - I wrote back this morning, same to you -
I at one point, earlier in the day wrote and said, that there were signs that I should have picked up on earlier on in the friendship that should have been signs to walk away. That his lying is what tainted the friendship. His telling me of unsafe sex and the fact that he told me he wasn't meeting others when he was. He said I was judging- I told him I wasn't, it is what happened and I should have taken those hints and walked away before falling for him - My mistake. At this point he just repulses me the same way Rob does. He is that kind of guy. He told me I don't have to guess/inquire or care whether he meets up etc - and I don't, not know, but while were "hanging " around together, constantly, it was my business whether he liked it or not we were physical with each other so I had every right - I told him I was making the call to end any friendship with him, that things will never be the same and how I wasted the last 7-8 months for nothing in the end. He went on to say, your welcome then for what you rec'd, learned and enjoyed, and then quoted me saying, I fucked and threw it all away, that I cant face myself and be friends blah. I asked what I rec'd? An std scare? Sucking his cock when he told me he wasn't hooking up when in fact he was and putting me potentially in harms way? I said that he rec'd from me, with not wanting anything in return, that I did things out of the goodness of my heart - I gave him money, pot, tickets to theatre shows, passes to exhibits he wanted to go to, the knife I bought and more...that he now makes me feel like a shit and I don't need that in my life. How words like, "you are not welcome in my home" are truly offensive and I'm done. I truly dislike him for what he has done - Yea I fell in love, but with a selfish, irresponsible immature guy. Not the first time, but thought this one was different - How wrong was I??