Let's Move On Together...?

Wow - last night was intense at Franks - I'm not sure how it went where it did, but it did. I ended up in tears, telling him I don't want to talk about the past - At 10pm I opted to go to bed, try to forget the evening, the words and the tones of the night. I truly love Frank, honestly and truly. This morning, to him, it was all a vague memory - not to me. He asked about the night and I told him, things that were said, etc. He told me he wasn't "that guy" in regards to feelings etc. I'm not sure what he meant, but I went on to tell him how when I have been with him, our time together, I'm so happy, so removed from the world, and its true. I left this morning, more lost than ever. What happened, why? It was on my mind all day and nothing short of tears throughout the day. He was sweet enough to send me an email at the end of the day, apologizing for his actions last night, that he believes I am truly a nice and genuine guy, not sure about the "lovers" part but that we get on and at the very least, we are good friends. that he hated to see my cry and miserable and that it wasn't his intention. I wrote back, thanking him for the email, thanking him for the apology but that it wasn't necessary. How for the first time since being single, I actually care for someone again, love waking up next to him etc. He said, it isn't something we should talk about thru email but get together and talk. I agreed. I went on to call him from the pub. I thanked him for the email, thanked him for the apology but said that he could always count on me. He has shown me things about himself hes never shown anyone and for that I am flattered and would like more. He said he is confused about himself sexuality wise. I am there for him. Hearing about the mistress really bothers me but I have done everything I possibly can to accept that. There is her and there is me. He said to me when I called him, that he is frustrated at many things in life and again I told him, "you need an ear to vent, a shoulder to cry on, I'm there" I don't know what will happen. I told him in email in response to his, that I enjoy waking up next to someone I care for, someone I love to be with. He said he was hung over and would probably go to bed early and sleep allot to catch up. The fact that he thought of me enough to write that email is nice to me, special to me. I just want to enjoy time with him. He said my initial thing on CL was to meet new people and that we crossed that boundary - he did, not me, he made the first move and eventually I fell for him. I hope we can carry on, I told him that in email and can only await his response and his wants.
I love ya Frank...Lets move on, together?
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